This post has nothing to do with me and everything to do with my beautiful and talented Kuwaiti girlfriend. I just don’t get it! She is sweet, intelligent, hardworking, talented, drop dead gorgeous, attentive to her husband, blah blah blah... I just don't understand why her husband chooses to spend all of his free time away from her which is breaking her heart piece by piece until finally he is going to lose her forever. No, she isn't cheating but she is losing hope as his bad behavior and neglect continues.
He's a handsome Kuwaiti guy, strait, successful and everything else that looks good on paper but he spends almost every weekend away from her with "the guys". I hear about this a lot in Kuwait and that it's considered the norm. I know about Diwaniya and all of the cultural aspects of Kuwait but almost every weekend apart? That's not the married life I would ever want or put up with. Thankfully when I was with Hayati he rarely went to Diwaniya and never ever spent the weekend with the guys. I secretly wished he would sometimes to give me a break. ;P
Anyway, I know it's just a matter of time before my girlfriend stops nagging him and gives up on him for good. She has guys chasing her all day long every day and would never give them any attention or cheat on her husband. She is just going to end up in divorce and hopefully meet a guy that is worthy of her greatness. For now all I can do is be a good friend to her, listen to her problems and learn from her situation.
I think cheating is very wrong but it’s clearly on the rise everywhere in the world. Just remember that women seem to be smarter cheaters than men and rarely get caught!
Reasons Why Women Cheat
Instances of women cheating on their partners may not be heard too often, but that does not mean it doesn’t happen. What causes women, who are traditionally thought to be a rather emotive species, to cheat is something we try to decode here.
1. She seeks the thrill. Some women cheat for the thrill of it. The excitement of doing things behind a partner’s back, the risk, the adrenaline rush, the desire are all very potent reasons for a woman to cheat. The cheating bit isn’t always emotional, it is in fact an out and out physical act that is engaged in for the thrill of it.
2. She wants more. The most obvious reason for a woman to cheat is that she isn’t getting enough sex or that she isn’t happy with what you have to offer. It is this happiness that results in her getting involved in an adulterous relationship. It is left to the man in the relationship to pull his socks up and fight for his woman. If you love her and want her, you have to go the extra mile and satisfy her.
3. She wants to get back at you. If you have cheated on her in the past, she could cheat on you just to get back at you. Yes, women can be rather revengeful if they so wish!
4. She is bored. Less or no experimentation in the bedroom can be one of the reasons a woman chooses to cheat. Women seek as much variation in the bedroom as men do and if her man cannot provide her the same, she is bound to look for it outside.
5. She feels neglected. This is the most common reason women give when asked why they cheated. Feeling neglected, unwanted or useless is what drives women to cheat. It is when their husbands or boyfriends ignore them that they take to finding companionship and solace in the company of others.
If you don’t want to go through the pain of being cheated, then it is up to you to ensure your woman is happy and satisfied. Give it your best shot and more and thus ensure that she has no excuse to cheat on you.