May 17, 2012

Hey Expats in Kuwait, The Party's Over!



Yesterday, I received this email below from MJ:


Dear All, (please see flyer above)

We regret to inform you that the PARTY NIGHT by Iszonica Modelling School scheduled to be held on 25th May 2012 at Zafran Restaurant in Salmiya has been cancelled. This is due to the recent clamp down on social events in Kuwait which have resulted in a number of events ending early or being forced to shut down even though a licence was obtained.

We apologise for any inconvenience and thank you for your understanding.

Kind regards,

MJ - Managing Director


This morning in the Arab Tiimes we read:


Crack down on ‘fun-seekers’ - Expats to be deported

Arab Times (Link), Kuwait City, May 16, 2012: Assistant Undersecretary for Criminal Security Affairs Major General Sheikh Ahmad Al-Khalifa has instructed officials from all General Security Departments to carry out security campaigns against immoral activities and corruption in all areas of the country.

An informed security source said special security teams have been formed to investigate suspected places and to arrest all visitors to these places.

He stressed that securitymen were instructed to carry out security campaigns during the weekend and those involved in immoral activities should be dealt with in a strict manner.

Expatriates arrested during the campaign will be deported to their home countries.

The security campaigns will be carried out at chalets, livestock pens, stables and suspected flats.

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After living as an expat in Kuwait for quite a while I’m rather used to censored books, magazines, movies and the non-existence of legal bars and clubs. If you drink water, chew gum, smoke or eat between sun up and sundown during the Holy month of Ramadan you can be arrested, fined and spend the entire month in jail. Did I mention this year that Ramadan is the month of August and outside temperatures reach over 130F?

Before those of you that are not familiar with living in Kuwait die of shock, please understand that Dubai and Bahrain are just a 50 minute plane ride away. Eleven months out of the year you can fly in, hit duty free and then board your expat magic carpet ride to lavish hotels, five star spas, live music, rave parties on the beach and cocktails while shopping at luxury stores in gigantic, exotic malls. Have you ever snow skied inside a Middle Eastern mall, during the month of June with a tequila buzz? Well, I have! :P Living in a dry country really doesn’t affect me since I’m not a drinker except a few glorious cocktails, tequila shots and fine wine while on vacation outside of Kuwait.

Lately I’ve seen several ads in Kuwait from popular Hotels with dinner, live music and dancing, advertised “party” events and fiesta boat cruises. I was kind of surprised these events were publically advertised since we do live in Kuwait where even most wedding parties are held separately for local men and women. I wouldn’t feel comfortable attending most of these events for fear that we would all get busted by CID, put on the front page of the Arab Times newspaper and deported. There are only a few select, exclusive, unadvertised parties I would attend in Kuwait. They are very safe and quite amazing if you are lucky enough to score an invite. That’s all I’m going to write about that…;)

The point of my little post is that I love living in Kuwait and try to respect its laws. I may not agree with all of them but I’m a guest in this country and I must respect it. Anytime I feel the need to have a “Girl’s Gone Wild” time I can just put myself on a plane to Dubai with my girlfriends. However, I do feel that there is nothing wrong with certain events like MJ’s above that was cancelled after she obtained a legal license. What precedent does this set for the small business community in Kuwait that is trying to promote their legal products and services? I hope this is not the new trend of things to come.

E&TC

14 comments:

  1. " Anytime I feel the need to have a “Girl’s Gone Wild” time I can just put myself on a plane to Dubai with my girlfriends"

    ..and thats why I love kuwait!

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    1. @7amood you took it out of context - what I understand from this comment is that she respects your country that much that she doesn't break the law by partying in Kuwait, but has the civility to travel to Dubai and Bahrain where it is legal and there she can let loose in style. That is not why she loves Kuwait, as I understand it, she loves Kuwait for other reasons. Listen 7amood, you should be greatful that anyone loves your country so you should show her respect that she does for your country. I hate your country I will dedicate the rest of my life to exposing your country for what it is and my impression is not that pleasant. It is very easy to expose this nation, because there are alot of people in this world that hate this country - piece of cake!

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    2. @Anonymous (above) ~ Well I'm glad you understood what I meant. LOL! I think @7amood is hatin' on me just a little bit. That's okay, these negative comments only make me stronger and give me a chuckle. ;D I do appreciate your support and hope you find some happiness while living here in Kuwait. I try to make the most out of everywhere I live. :)

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    3. @7amood ~ FYI: It's not just Westerners. There are tons of Kuwaiti's partying in Dubai as well. I'm not judging them so maybe you should stop sitting behind your keyboard judging me. Or you can keep judging me and sending your comments. It does make this blog a lot more interesting. :)

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  2. dont judge or interpret things as you please..

    what I meant is that I love the fact that the kuwaiti society is a conservative society. And that people have to travel to dubai, bahrain etc. if they want to attend nightclubs or buy alcohol legally.

    and yes, everyone knows that kuwaiti's and non-kuwaitis go to dubai/bahrain et al to party and whatnot. I never implied do not do wrong, and dont judge me based on your inaccurate interpretation

    please dont play the victim here. All i said is that I love that my country is bans nightclubs/alcohol etc.

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    1. Hey Hey Hey, it's my blog so I can do whatever I want which includes the following: Judge, Interpret, act victimized, throw tantrums, kill people...

      Seriously, I'm truly sorry for misinterpreting your comment. I'm suffering from a massive case of PMS this weekend. I'm literally weeping when I look at family pics around the apartment. Totally homesick! *sniffles*

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    2. hope you feel better

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  3. @anon

    if you hate kuwait then leave. and if you already left and still are obsessed about kuwait, and are dedicating your life to spreading hate about kuwait, then you lead a very sad life.


    and no, and why should I be grateful that someone loves my country or not? if they love kuwait, it doesnt do me any good. if they hate kuwait, it does not do me any good either.

    i really meant what I said with good intentions, but you guys turned it into a crusade. and since expat felt that I am hating on her, then you must be very insecure.

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  4. There will always be parties and "what not" in Kuwait. You're setting yourself up for failure when you get permits/permission anyway. Just advertise your parties on FACEBOOK like everyone else and block the eyes of those Haters lol or just have it in Dubai lol!

    I hope your love life is a bit better, saw your prior post about it

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    1. Great advice Kenny! :*

      I'm doing fine now. More good days than bad ones in regards to missing him. Still not ready to move on. A handsome Navy Officer asked me out but I am still hesitant. I want ME TIME this summer! ;)

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  5. "and no, and why should I be grateful that someone loves my country or not? if they love kuwait, it doesnt do me any good. if they hate kuwait, it does not do me any good either."


    I don't know, why should you care if someone wants to party or drink in your country, if they aren't doing it in privacy.

    Shouldn't bother you either; freedom must be a radical concept.

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    1. If everyone would worry about themselves doing right over wrong instead of others the world would be a far better place. :)

      There is too much control here and too little freedom which creates a lot of desire for the forbidden.

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