He'll come around !I call it male pms :P
Thanks for your support Lady B and LOOOOOOOL at the male PMS! He is very patient and calm. I must have really done something wrong for him to ignore me all day. I have no real idea what I did. I know he is not in the hospital because his family would have called me. Urrrrrrr, he wants to punish me and it's working.
Did you make fun of his mamma? :POtherwise he's just being extremely immature (this is coming from someone who can't drive yet) :P
Passive aggressive behavior and this is mentally abusive. Do not tolerate or accept and tell him this upfront. Tell him you prefer direct communication -- if you do not set the boundaries now in your relationship and set the standards of what is acceptable and what is not, you're in for a bumpy ride in the future.This is a warning sign of things to come!!!! Hot and Cold behavior is not cool!
teeheeheee, he's a real Kuwaiti then :Pyes he'll come around, just ignore him & he'll come and talk, it's just a matter of time ;)*hugs*
He introduced you to his family??! Wow... at least THAT is a good sign :)
its something fundamental, something inherent in you that he might be displeased with right now. easy things are usually easy to talk about. it is when issues are hard or irreparable that people avoid talking about them. he'll be out with it sooner or later Paula, just keep calm and have some butter fried something
r.alsharif ~ Loooool, not in front of him. heehee. Let me know when you start driving so I can stay off the roads...Just Kidding! ;P
Anonymous 8:00 AM ~ thank you for the advice. :)
Swera ~ thank you sweetie :* Yep, he came around alright. However, I am still mad at him and giving him a taste of his own medicine. He misunderstood something I said to him. Instead of letting me explain myself he just ignored me. He sent me a message saying he feels that I am just playing with him and not serious about our future like he is. That there are plenty of Kuwaiti women that want to take my place. My answer: then go for it! The truth is that his comment really hurt me and now we are not speaking to each other. Just a few text messages. :'(
q8Teacher ~ I wish I could post about that but way too personal. He is older than me and has stood up for me many times when they challenged his decision to marry a foreigner. Their main concern is the religion and children if we end up getting divorced. This is the same for my parents. Although we have to remain in Kuwait for his work at least I won on the part about having our own place. :)Right now we are fighting and I don't think it's looking good for us. :(
Q8othug ~ Loooool! Butter fried anything sounds good right now! Yummy!!! Too bad Paula's stuck at work. :(
"He sent me a message saying he feels that I am just playing with him and not serious about our future like he is. That there are plenty of Kuwaiti women that want to take my place."Bad move on his part. He should not have said that. That is a classic case of someone who has some insecurity in the relationship and so hes trying to make you feel the same. Relationships from different cultures will ALWAYS be difficult (I am in one). This always get worse whenever family is involved. If you two are serious about being together then you both have to be prepared that you might have to close ur family off and/or stand up to them in order for you two to have a future.
Q80thug ~ I forgot to respond to the first part of your comment. LOL! Are you kidding me? It doesn't take much for most Kuwaiti men to ignore you. That is common knowledge to anyone in a relationship with one. Just ask my girlfriends! Teeheehee. If you breathe the wrong way you get ignored. American men usually talk about it...thanks Dr. Phil! ;P
TK ~ thank you for the good advice. We hardly ever fight now but when we do feelings get hurt. I know he just sent it to see if I cared. I'm not threatened or jealous because he is crazy about me. Being with me isn't easy and I have my faults. I just feel that he is very wrong this time and I'm standing my ground. I don't need a man or the fancy gifts, dinners and trips. I can buy them myself. Unfortunately I have grown to love him, his family and his culture. In my heart I think we will be together but I want to teach him a lesson this time. :P
Ignorance is a good sign that you mean something to him and he really want you to change.ignore him back to show him that he means a lot to you too :P
Stiggy ~ Loooool! Thanks Dr. Stig :D
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