If it turns out that I am single again then this summer is going to be work and girls only. I have to stay out of trouble because I am still in love with him. *sigh*
I just want to hang with the girls since I haven't been free to do so (as often as I like) for a long time. With our busy schedules we have to plan ahead for the beach, spa, shopping or even going out to dinner.
The major problem is that most of my girlfriends that are still in Kuwait are married / dating and too busy working like I was. Damn!!!
Whaaaaaaat, what happened ?
ReplyDeleteI'm there and single whenever you want to go out shopping or eating limme know *hug*
LadyB ~ You are too sweet. I would love that! Thank you. :D
ReplyDeleteWe are just going through a difficult time. It sucks! :(
Noooooooooooooooooooooooooo!!!! Leeeeeeesh?!
ReplyDeleteYou are SO welcome to come and hang with me and the girls.
Oh dear :( don't worry u r Amaizing and beautiful , we love u so much and we r here for you :*
ReplyDeleteAwwwww, That really sucks! I'm so sorry;**
ReplyDeleteInshallah something awesomely unexpected happens and makes you feel better!
xx
Nothing is more annoying than the silent treatment!!!
ReplyDeleteSome q80 men need to learn how to channel what their feeling into words and not just ignoring the problem!
Im jobless for a month if u need company haha! :p
does he look like one of those guys on the picture?! If, yes stop the punishment and the ignoring thing right now and go find him!!!
ReplyDeletejust kidding! LOL
Sorry to hear that you are going through rough time. I know this phase is really hard. I hope and pray that things work out for the best. Just don't be alone during this time. Find the crowds and hang out with "the girls". Time's a healer.
ReplyDeleteOops! I hope it was ok to leave a comment. Ref: "No Boys Allowed!".
ReplyDeleteAnonymous 4:40 PM ~ LOOOl! No way he looks like the guys in the picture. Not even close! :P
ReplyDeleteDG ~ Thank you :D I would love to come and meet you and the girls.
ReplyDeleteNew Bride ~ you are such a doll. Thank you and love you too! I think we will be okay but I am just hurt / ticked off.
ReplyDeleter.alsharif ~ Thank you sweetheart. :* Watching him suffer will help me feel better. ;P
ReplyDeleteChirp ~ Loool, you know it! If you look up 'the ignore treatment' in Webster's dictionary there is a picture of a Kuwaiti guy. I wish I was jobless for a month. Lucky you! I guess I should quit so we can just travel the entire month. :)
ReplyDeleteBananamonkee ~ Heehee, thank you for your support. :) Of course guys are welcome to comment. Even monkeys ;P
ReplyDeleteHi there,
ReplyDeleteSo sorry to hear about the troubles you are facing. If things do work out and you end up together, please proceed with caution. I am currently in a cross cultural relationship with an Arab man, and I can tell you that I wish I had read these early signs properly prior to our marriage. Our marriage isn't horrible, but this kind of indirect and passive aggressive communication is a feature of the arab culture, and believe me, in marriage, it will only get worse as he feels more security with you - and these tough phases will occur more frequently and closer together. Believe me, he was extremely patient, loving, spoiled me to no end, and it was hard to imagine things would be as they are now. Not to say you are naive, but when you write about him and your relationship, it could have been me so many years ago. And if not for yourself, please consider how you will feel about this personality type when it affects your children - either by them witnessing it or by them being on the receiving end. Just some sincere advice from someone who really does understand :)
Fine, I'll help you beat him with a base ball bat! :D I have a metal one, that should make you feel better!
ReplyDeleteIgnore back , it always work believe me , he still wants to be with you
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry for the 'drama' you're having to deal with right now. But rest assured, he'll come around -- they always do.
ReplyDeleteAs you know, all relationships have their ups and downs... but multi-cultural ones can be a real headache! Try not to let it stress you, and remember... just as he has 'Kuwaiti women willing to take your place' you probably have many men from all walks of life willing to take his! He's no better than you and don't let him think for a moment he is.
Keep us posted and I wish you the best!
Anonymous 12:30 ~ I woke up at 4:15 AM this morning and read your comment on my BlackBerry. I just had the feeling you are such a sweet person. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for sharing your story with me. I really appreciate your heartfelt advice and concern. :)
ReplyDeleter.alsharif ~ Hahahaha! It's official! I'm adopting you as my baby sister! ;)
ReplyDeleteAnonymous 5:24 Pm ~ I'm trying my best to ignore him. When I arrived home tonight I felt he was watching me as I parked my car. My Haras approached me inside my building with two bags from Melenzane. He was here and left me dinner. :) I guess it's cheating but I ate half of it. Lol!
ReplyDeleteAmerican Girl ~ Thank you for the good advice. :) I'm trying to remain cool but I'm failing miserably...:( I want him to feel truly sorry for the way he treated me.
ReplyDeleteYou're not failing! He has to 'sit between him and himself' (I think that means 'alone' in their accent) so he can think. The longer he doesn't hear your voice -- the worse he's going to feel for what he's done.
ReplyDeleteAmerican Girl ~ Thank you. You are very wise and give excellent advice. :) I think you and Desert Girl know more about Kuwait than most Kuwaitis. ;) My birthday is coming up and I don't want to spend it without him. I just agreed to dinner with him tomorrow night so we can talk. Wish me luck! I'm nervous that I might cry like a big baby in front of everyone.
ReplyDeleteI'm going to sleep now so good night and sweet dreams. :)
Thank you, that's very kind for you to say.
ReplyDeleteGood luck at the dinner... cry like a baby! They lose all sense of thought when a woman cries -- it's our weapon. Unfortunately the relationship (though real and with true emotions) has to be played like a game with many challenges and obstacles, otherwise they get bored. Dating a Kuwaiti (no offense men) is like raising a child with ADD.
Hope you slept well!
American Girl ~ That is so funny and true! Thank you for cheering me up. :D
ReplyDeleteDinner went really well. He kept apologizing and I hope he will think twice before ignoring me again. I know I'm naive but I decided to give him another chance.
Have a great weekend!